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Marriage: Someone is alive today because he or she didn’t marry. Someone is dead today because he or she got married. Someone is alive today because two persons got married, yes. Someone is going to die because he or she will someday get married. Don’t let anyone force you into a marriage that will kill you. Don’t get married to please your mom, dad, siblings, etc but don’t neglect all the pieces of advice from them. Don’t get married to anybody because age is no longer on your side; for death may be on your side as soon as you get married. The same people that cajoled you by gesture or by action shall be the same people, if they are alive, to attend your burial, but how many of them shall come to your rescue in your marital tribulations? Everyone must not get married but everyone ought to be…

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Everyone must not get married. It’s not a do-or-die-affair. This particularly concerns ladies and gentlemen. Yes, not particularly ladies. If you must get married, make up your mind that you have to live with and accommodate another person. There is a difference when you are living like a single person and when you are married. The life of a married person is a life of two persons in one. You are positively in chains whether you like it or not. When you accept this , you become happy as a married person. This means that when you get married, you drop certain responsibilities and acquire some, or even add more. This makes you not to go anywhere that you want to go, nor do anyhow that you usually do, nor actualize any thought that comes to your mind, nor wear whatever fashion you like, etc. As a married person, you…

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River of Sex: Sex in marriage comes differently to women and differently to men. A man and his wife were actually working class persons but whenever they both come back, they take their bath. As the woman goes to the kitchen to cook, the man sits at the parlor to watch television shows, football and sometimes plays video games.   After eating their supper together, they go to bed. As the man wants to enjoy holy conjugal union with his wife, the wife always tells him that she is tired having come back from work and entered the kitchen. Indeed, the wife was actually tired because her eyes and temperature always show that. So, she wasn’t pretending about it because the man knows his wife. But, he wasn’t finding it funny.   This continued several days and months, for the only day they do the holy deeds of their sacrament…

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Boys/Men Should Cook Too If you are a parent, choosing to teach only your daughter(s) how to cook while neglecting your son(s), doesn’t in any way help your sons in life. When they get to the school (university), the female ones cook for themselves while the male ones (not all but many) begin to look for whom to cook for them or spend the money you gave them in buying meals. Moreover, some innocently call in their female friends who however turn into school wives and he becomes a school husband, such that after eating, your son shall be more tempted to eat her and thus the continuous eating of two foods ; body and ….. continuously; we are all flesh and blood. The same above goes with those of your sons who live alone after apprenticeship. There’s more to this cohabitation spiritually but let’s move on and leave that…

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The Hakimian Saga The buzz from male folks because of the Hakimian saga shows an ongoing silent war, both imaginary and real against women, and between men and women, and the inherent trust lacking in marital life nowadays. This is the reality and not just a sentiment. The worst is that those of them shouting , “Hakimi you are wise” without knowing the “Genesis to Revelation” of the whole saga betray the distrust they have been having about women. But this event has helped them to express them better. They now found foothold to maintain such distrust. Yet, their mums are wonderful women? It is those folks that may say, “your wife is not your family.” These praised Hakimi’s mother, yet propose directly or indirectly that “your wife is not your family.” What a hypocrisy!!! Is Hakimi’s mother not a wife to Hakimi’s father even now? Isn’t it such family…

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By Redacción Zenit Pope asks Catholics to pray for children in November 2022: they are not numbers, they are human beings. NOVEMBER 03, 2022 November has arrived, and with it a new Pope Video that shares the prayer intention that the pontiff is entrusting to the entire Catholic Church through the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network. This month, Francis’ words focus on the smallest among us, children who are forgotten, who daily suffer rejection, indigence, poverty, and every kind of conflict, without a real chance for growth and development and without access to basic rights. These are “conditions very similar to slavery,” the Pope laments, referring to the millions of children who suffer these conditions, due to a “system that we adults have built.” The message of The Pope Video cries out for the fundamental rights of children and asks us to pray that they may have access to basic services…

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My Name is Casanova A talented young lady of 20 years wanted to see me for some directions, I obliged, and we scheduled a date. When we met, I asked of her name which I supposed to have inquired of. She said, “My name is Casanova.” And I asked, “but is that your real name or..?”, she cut in and said, “it’s just my nickname.” “But why did you chose the name,” I asked further? She said that she just loved the name. Again I furthered my inquiry, “what do you love about the name.” She said, “Father, the sound is just pleasing to my ear.” At that, I metered the name in my mind: Ca-sa-no-va. You know how the mind works by association—and “Casablanca” came into my head, and I asked her, do you also like the name Casablanca? “Yes, from being a name of a movie with Grammy…

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Father Ndị Mkpụrụ Mmiri na SK.   After the morning mass at the mass center located away from the parish, I drove crusingly and stopped at the particular spot where they stayed. Normally, I used to greet them as I passed, but now I decided to stop and have a Tête-à-Tête with them. I am talking about young men who sell and smoke substances that get one thinking that he is on the moon and could do everything. We laughed and joked. I brought out 10 pieces of 100 naira notes and shared to those it could reach. They became so much excited but I pitied them. In mind, they are far above better than this. And I don’t know if I have sponsored another Ìgbó for the day. However, I gave them the money for some of them to eat because they haven’t eaten with those red eyes. I…

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*TOO LATE TO APOLOGISE “AND WHAT REALLY HAPPENED* “Where are you coming from by this time of the night?” He thundered. “Honey you won’t believe what happened today. Oh God I’m so tired right now.” She replied as she yawned. “I asked where you are coming from and you are vomiting rubbish. Does that answer my question? Are you trying to pretend you don’t know there’s no food in this house?” He said fuming. “Honey I’m sorry but you should hear me out first. I….” Before she could complete that sentence, a thunderous slap kissed her left cheek and she passed out on the sofa. “Get my dinner ready, after that you will tell me why you switched off your phone.” He said as he walked towards the bedroom. When he noticed there was no response from his wife, he was infuriated. He rushed towards her to unleash the rest…

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For upcoming couples If you cannot forgive, don’t ever marry because marriage is the federal ministry of offense. Then, if you marry a good woman or man, you are complete. If you marry a bad woman or man, you are finished. If you marry a woman who loves shopping so much or a man who loves wine so much, you are completely finished. Shalom!!! ©Truth Series.

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