Men, allow your wives to work!
When a man forbids his wife to work, he should bear in mind that:
1. He is working the job of two persons and should his source of income dry, the family is going to suffer a lot, including those he is claiming to be working for. The house keeping he put the wife into shall become meaningless because house keeping must be serviced with money keeping. How would the wife understand you? How would the wife forgive you? You are a “gonner.”
2. He is overworking his life span and as such, even if nothing happens to his source of income, he dies due to stress or he is bedridden. The same woman shall verily take up the business, and it’s highly likely that she won’t succeed because she doesn’t know the intricacies of [the] business for she has been a house wife. Even if she succeeds due to her natural smartness or academic intelligence, she would carry the family along irrespective of the how you have shortened your life span due to “what do you need that I can’t provide?” If she doesn’t work smart, she would join you asap to the village and to the grave and the children suffer.
Let her contribute wealth to the family, your happiness shall know no bounds. Drop your insecurities. A man should begin to grow flesh when he marries and not start getting thin. That marital flesh is very important. It’s a sign of a peaceful mind. I don’t mean pot belly OOO! 🤣🤣
3. If it’s because of the “housewifeship” practiced by our forefathers, then such a man should remember that our forefathers have a wisdom in which they practiced such, which is to join in the farming. Wealth then, is judged by the richness (quality and quantity) of farm harvest. So, the more the wife is available, the more she could organize the children at home for farming even in the absence of the man. This means that the woman works in the olden days. That’s working smart and not forbiding work.
4. To stop a woman from working is just making her mind to be dormant and she would loose the touch of how to work things out outside the home. What happens in the absence of the man? You begin to hire outsiders and the result is business doom.
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You can even let her do online business, combining with and promoting the one you are already doing. Through that, she can make a lot of money. My brother, it’s now about working smart. She can work from home sometimes. It’s about nice arrangement.
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© Fr. Henry Charles Umelechi, Truth Series.